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.On many occasions I would sleep with more than one girl in a night& with both of themwell aware of what was going on.This is an art form.And not something that you should assume you have the skills to do right offthe back.If done wrongly, you will wind up looking like a sex crazed pervert.You don't want tocome off as the horny college guy who can't stop talking about sex.You need to come off ashaving a maturity towards sex beyond your years.Almost as if you're more evolved towards it thenothers.You have to be comfortable talking about it because it is such a natural part of your life thatyou would not be able to understand otherwise.By creating an environment where sex is not a taboo subject, you create an environment whereeveryone feels free to indulge in it.This is similar to the movement that went on in the 1960's withthe hippies.Although I don't suggest taking the "free love" approach, as that will only label you adirty hippie.Bobby Rio Freepuaopeners.com Page 67 Confidential Social Intelligence ManuscriptChapter 7: Cultivate a fan base (commitment + liking +reciprocation)Your Objective:The objective of the following chapter is to teach you how to develop a legion of people whoworship you.The previous chapters have given you the tools necessary to be the type of guy whopeople want to be around.But a crucial element to becoming a social superstar is to be liked andadored.The three most important weapons of persuasion and influence for building a fan base arecommitment, liking, and reciprocation.Your communication skills need to be honed to near perfection.If you want to have peoplefollowing you it is important that you first get them to like you.Once someone decides that theylike you it will be much easier to use the other weapons of persuasion and influence on them.Thefollowing section will teach you exactly how to get people to like you.The second step in building a fan base is to get them to commit to the idea of following your lead.People's attention's spans often waiver.They quickly get sucked back into their own day to dayexistence.This is why it is necessary to use specific psychological techniques that will mentally bindthem to sticking with you.The third weapon of influence you must use to build your fan base is the weapon of reciprocation.This is perhaps the most powerful of all the weapons.This weapon simply states that human beingsfeel a mental obligation to repay favors done for them.In the following section I am going to showyou how use the power of reciprocation to get legions of people looking for ways to help youachieve superstardom.Your Plan:Bobby Rio Freepuaopeners.com Page 68 Confidential Social Intelligence ManuscriptThis next section will get you further in life than any of the previous sections.If you follow thecommunication techniques laid out throughout the rest of this section you will make more friends,date more women, earn more money, and live a more exciting and rewarding life than 98% of thepopulation.These three weapons of influence (liking, reciprocation, and commitment) are so powerful that ifyou can master them the world will be handed to you on a silver spoon.How to Get Involved in ScenesMost of this book was written with the presumption that you already have a social scene that youcan climb to the top of and command.But I also understand that there are some people readingthis who will need some guidance into how to go about finding the groups of people that they wantto hang out with.Even if you currently have a social scene that you are active in I believe it is important that youknow how to find new scenes when the time comes.It is also important to be a member of severalsocial scenes because it allows you to play them against each other for jealousy effect.And b ydividing your time between several scenes the "scarcity" effect will multiply, as will your "socialproof."In the previous section on "hobbies" I gave you some tips for finding way to immerse yourself intonew hobbies.In this short section I want to list some more ways find people with commoninterests.Part Time JobsMost romances don t occur between two people who meet at a bar or club.The majority ofromances occur in the workplace.It makes sense.When you re spending 4 to 8 hours a day with thesame group of people you tend to get close to them.You also tend to start picturing them naked.It s a fact of life.I learned this lesson my junior year of high school when I took a job at Shop Right.I wasn t workingthere for more than two weeks before I realized that the employees looked at the place like it was agiant night club.Everyone was hooking up.And I mean everyone& from the 16 year old cashiers tothe 55 year old Seafood Dept.managers.Bobby Rio Freepuaopeners.com Page 69 Confidential Social Intelligence ManuscriptIf you re in high school I would probably recommend a job in a supermarket for meeting women.But once you graduate high school the quality of girls your age working in a supermarket will greatlydiminish.I've put together a list of some of the best jobs to meet women at.These are jobs for those of youstill in college, those of you still waiting to find your life calling, or those of you just looking tosupplement your income with a second job.Remember these jobs not only open you up to meeting co-workers and customers& but you alsoget introduced into the social scenes of all the friends you make at your new job.The 5 Best Part Time Jobs for Meeting WomenTanning Salon- If you are going to get a job in a tanning salon you want to make sure it is one of thebigger chains with lots of beds.You want to work in a salon that has at least 5-10 other peopleworking there.Chances are they will all be girls.Young girls.All the customers will be girls as well.A tanning salon is best for someone with a fairly good level of game.There won t be as many co-workers to choose from, and you will only have a minute or two to interact with customers eachtime they come in.The benefit is that most likely it will be a small staff of 2 or 3 people working.This means you will have up- close and personal time with any cute chick working there.And mostof the customers will be repeat customers coming in weekly.This means you will have a chance tobuild rapport over time.Barnes and Noble- Barnes and Noble is best for the guy who genuinely likes to read and discussbooks.The girls that will work there will more than likely be the hipster intelligent type.These girlsmay seem kind of nerdy& but they are wild in bed [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]
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.On many occasions I would sleep with more than one girl in a night& with both of themwell aware of what was going on.This is an art form.And not something that you should assume you have the skills to do right offthe back.If done wrongly, you will wind up looking like a sex crazed pervert.You don't want tocome off as the horny college guy who can't stop talking about sex.You need to come off ashaving a maturity towards sex beyond your years.Almost as if you're more evolved towards it thenothers.You have to be comfortable talking about it because it is such a natural part of your life thatyou would not be able to understand otherwise.By creating an environment where sex is not a taboo subject, you create an environment whereeveryone feels free to indulge in it.This is similar to the movement that went on in the 1960's withthe hippies.Although I don't suggest taking the "free love" approach, as that will only label you adirty hippie.Bobby Rio Freepuaopeners.com Page 67 Confidential Social Intelligence ManuscriptChapter 7: Cultivate a fan base (commitment + liking +reciprocation)Your Objective:The objective of the following chapter is to teach you how to develop a legion of people whoworship you.The previous chapters have given you the tools necessary to be the type of guy whopeople want to be around.But a crucial element to becoming a social superstar is to be liked andadored.The three most important weapons of persuasion and influence for building a fan base arecommitment, liking, and reciprocation.Your communication skills need to be honed to near perfection.If you want to have peoplefollowing you it is important that you first get them to like you.Once someone decides that theylike you it will be much easier to use the other weapons of persuasion and influence on them.Thefollowing section will teach you exactly how to get people to like you.The second step in building a fan base is to get them to commit to the idea of following your lead.People's attention's spans often waiver.They quickly get sucked back into their own day to dayexistence.This is why it is necessary to use specific psychological techniques that will mentally bindthem to sticking with you.The third weapon of influence you must use to build your fan base is the weapon of reciprocation.This is perhaps the most powerful of all the weapons.This weapon simply states that human beingsfeel a mental obligation to repay favors done for them.In the following section I am going to showyou how use the power of reciprocation to get legions of people looking for ways to help youachieve superstardom.Your Plan:Bobby Rio Freepuaopeners.com Page 68 Confidential Social Intelligence ManuscriptThis next section will get you further in life than any of the previous sections.If you follow thecommunication techniques laid out throughout the rest of this section you will make more friends,date more women, earn more money, and live a more exciting and rewarding life than 98% of thepopulation.These three weapons of influence (liking, reciprocation, and commitment) are so powerful that ifyou can master them the world will be handed to you on a silver spoon.How to Get Involved in ScenesMost of this book was written with the presumption that you already have a social scene that youcan climb to the top of and command.But I also understand that there are some people readingthis who will need some guidance into how to go about finding the groups of people that they wantto hang out with.Even if you currently have a social scene that you are active in I believe it is important that youknow how to find new scenes when the time comes.It is also important to be a member of severalsocial scenes because it allows you to play them against each other for jealousy effect.And b ydividing your time between several scenes the "scarcity" effect will multiply, as will your "socialproof."In the previous section on "hobbies" I gave you some tips for finding way to immerse yourself intonew hobbies.In this short section I want to list some more ways find people with commoninterests.Part Time JobsMost romances don t occur between two people who meet at a bar or club.The majority ofromances occur in the workplace.It makes sense.When you re spending 4 to 8 hours a day with thesame group of people you tend to get close to them.You also tend to start picturing them naked.It s a fact of life.I learned this lesson my junior year of high school when I took a job at Shop Right.I wasn t workingthere for more than two weeks before I realized that the employees looked at the place like it was agiant night club.Everyone was hooking up.And I mean everyone& from the 16 year old cashiers tothe 55 year old Seafood Dept.managers.Bobby Rio Freepuaopeners.com Page 69 Confidential Social Intelligence ManuscriptIf you re in high school I would probably recommend a job in a supermarket for meeting women.But once you graduate high school the quality of girls your age working in a supermarket will greatlydiminish.I've put together a list of some of the best jobs to meet women at.These are jobs for those of youstill in college, those of you still waiting to find your life calling, or those of you just looking tosupplement your income with a second job.Remember these jobs not only open you up to meeting co-workers and customers& but you alsoget introduced into the social scenes of all the friends you make at your new job.The 5 Best Part Time Jobs for Meeting WomenTanning Salon- If you are going to get a job in a tanning salon you want to make sure it is one of thebigger chains with lots of beds.You want to work in a salon that has at least 5-10 other peopleworking there.Chances are they will all be girls.Young girls.All the customers will be girls as well.A tanning salon is best for someone with a fairly good level of game.There won t be as many co-workers to choose from, and you will only have a minute or two to interact with customers eachtime they come in.The benefit is that most likely it will be a small staff of 2 or 3 people working.This means you will have up- close and personal time with any cute chick working there.And mostof the customers will be repeat customers coming in weekly.This means you will have a chance tobuild rapport over time.Barnes and Noble- Barnes and Noble is best for the guy who genuinely likes to read and discussbooks.The girls that will work there will more than likely be the hipster intelligent type.These girlsmay seem kind of nerdy& but they are wild in bed [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]